Rosemary’s Thoughts

The new generation is certainly drawn to online dating. Women in general are scared of meeting a man she has been chatting with online. It would be impossible trying to figure the real motives of a man when he dates online. He may be a sexual predator looking for some easy prey to victimize. You may cook an idea that this is a good platform to look for a nice girl for you. The guy gets girl book which is a step by step guide to help you meet, attract and date the girl of your dreams. A lot of things have been said about this book but here is a review of what to expect from it.

It would be in order for you to find out all you can about the strange woman you will be dating online. To be able to read between the lines of her conversation would be a big asset to you. The best approach is to be yourself, calm, cool and collected.

Ask the questions only after both of you have felt comfortable with each other. Once you have thrown the line, just be a good listener because she is going to tell you a lot about herself and her views of men in general.

Asking for her opinion about online dating will open up another floodgate. You can use her bad experiences as a guide in your encounter with her at the online date.

As a last question you can ask what caused the break up in her last relationship. If she blames the guy, you can conclude she is egoistic and self centered. If she puts all the blame on herself, it is simply ridiculous that the other guy is blemish free. She is not absorbing all the blame while at the same time she does not discount the part the other guy plays in the break up. In proceeding with the relationship, remember that exercising caution is the better part of valour.

Knowing what you are dealing with will give you a better edge and boost your confidence when you meet the lady for the first time. The woman is like a shadow; you chase them, they will run away from you but if you leave them, they will come after you. Remember that the woman is seeking a partner to chit chat with and enjoy herself talking about the small things that will extract a few giggles or so. If you rush her to meet you face-to-face she might think you are a desperado.

A solid foundation to a good lasting relationship is built on honesty and not on deceit. There is a wise oriental saying that the carcass of an elephant can never be hidden under a bamboo tray (don’t lie).

You surely want the woman to accept you as you are and not as some touched up wretched monster of a mysterious lagoon; just sent the photo. Send full bodied shots and not just head shots. Show pictures of yourself just as she would see you in the real world.

Once you have successfully negotiated a meeting face-to-face you must make her feel comfortable; suggest that she meets you at a public place during daylight hours and that she brings along a friend with her. Remove all insinuations of fear and trickery. Women are good at and can easily smell a rat.